Collecting Intellectual Income

“Never feel guilty about reading, it's what you do to do your job.”

– William Safire

This quote appears on the very last page of Peggy's Noonan classic book, “On Speaking Well.”  Mr. Safire was giving this advice to a young writer.  Ms. Noonan goes on to say that “reading is the collecting of intellectual income; writing is the spending of it.  You need to read to write, you need to take in other people's words and thoughts and images.”

Regardless of your political views (both Safire and Noonan were speechwriters for Republican Presidents) is is hard to top the expert advice that Safire and Noonan offer.  They are professional writers and speakers and they continue to be students of writing and speaking.  Both have written for others (politicians, business leaders and celebrities) as well as for themselves.  They are keen observers of the political scene but they excel at studying and explaining how choosing the right word for the right occasion helps to communicate a powerful message.

After listening to the eulogies at President Ford's memorials I picked “On Speaking Well” out of my bookcase.  I wanted to re-read Peggy Noonan's thoughts about writing for others.  I had my own opinions about which politician relied too heavily on a speechwriter and which may have written their own eulogy for President Ford.  (My opinion is that Vice President Cheney wrote his own  – it was the the most sincere speech that I ever heard him deliver!)

I ended up re-reading the book from cover-to-cover – what a great investment!  I certainly collected so “intellectual income” from this book which I will be spending soon.  I am not writing a full book review of “On Speaking Well,” but I give it my full recommendation as a book that must be in your bookcase if you are serious about improving your communications skills.  (I was so charged up with my re-reading that I am now re-reading Jack Valenti's book , “Speak Up With Confidence.”)

President Reagan was labeled as “The Great Communicator” and Peggy Noonan was one of his speechwriters.  Many critics panned Reagan as a simple-minded politician who never-the-less was able to win over audiences and leave behind many memorable phrases.  The critics said that it was a case of style over substance.  Ms. Noonan – as you might suspect – argues aggressively that this is not the case.  And she is very persuasive in making it!  She argues that Reagan used simple language to communicate big ideas:

“The language of love is simple because love is big.  And big things are best said, are almost always said, in small words.”

You will gain a new appreciation for using simple words to express big things by reading “On Speaking Well.”  For me, the highlight of the book is Peggy Noonan's insightful commentary of some of the best-known speeches of the past 100 years.  Of course there is the usual John F. Kennedy, Winston Churchill, Ronald Reagan.  But also the Earl Spencer's eulogy for his sister Princess Diana.  And… Hyman Roth's speech to Michael Corleone in The Godfather II – What a bonus!

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The Right Words

“Tell me a fact and I'll learn.  Tell me a truth and I'll believe.  But tell me a story and it will live in my heart forever.”

– Indian Proverb

I found this lovely proverb in the Foreword to “The Right Words at the Right Time” – a marvelous compilation of stories by Marlo Thomas and over 100 of her friends and associates.  This wonderful book was published in 2002 by Atria (Simon & Schuster, Inc.) and I frequently offer it as a gift – especially to friends who are grieving or at a difficult point in their lives or careers.

It is always difficult to offer advice to someone – they do not welcome it, do not think that they need it or they ignore it!

I find that it is even more difficult to try to comfort someone when they are grieving – how can I possibly know how they are feeling (they must think???)

But … to tell a story – the right story at the right time – now that is a golden gift that almost everyone will receive – and remember!

This morning, I picked up my copy of “The Right Words at the Right Time” because I was still thinking about the wonderful memorial service yesterday honoring the late President Gerald R. Ford.  I thought that Tom Brokow's eulogy was magnificent – just the right touch – and filled with stories – which helped to make it memorable.  I wanted to read his story in Marlo Thomas' compilation (along with stories from Betty Ford and many others.) 

The other eulogies at yesterday's service were fair (in my opinion) but far from memorable.  Giving a eulogy is one of the most difficult speeches that anyone will ever have to make.  Keeping your own emotions in check while trying to pay tribute and offer comfort to the family and friends of the deceased will challenge the skills of even the most gifted orator.  That is why the most successful speakers are the best story tellers.  In telling a story (like singing a song or playing a musical instrument) you gain several advantages:

1) The story (or song) has a built-in emotional factor – it sets a mood or a tone.

2) In telling it (or singing or playing it) you concentrate on the story (or song) and not on your own emotions.  The audience does not distract you.

3) The story (or song) has a built-in beginning, middle and end – so you remain focused and you make a point that your audience will likely remember.

So, if you want to be an effective speaker (like Tom Brokow) collect and cultivate stores.  Then practice telling them – to make them your own.  This is the single, best piece of advice that I can offer anyone who wants to improve the communications skills – or to deliver a eulogy.  Learn to tell stories.  Pick the story with the right words and tell it (well) at the right time.

Music has the same power – the right piece played (well) at the right time.  Denyce Graves' powerful performance of “The Lord's Prayer” at President Ford's memorial service is the perfect example of the power of music to lift our spirits and transport us to another place.  To offer comfort and solace and to give us hope and strength to move forward.

If you would like a copy of all of the musical selections, performers, verses and officials at President Ford's service, click here on this link.

Now, I am going to go back and read a few more stories.  Finding the right words at the right time will help me to better focus on what I want to accomplish this year.

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Interesting Start of the New Year

I send my best wishes to all of you for a very happy, peaceful and prosperous 2007!

As I write this missive, I am watching the ceremonies in remembrance of Gerald R. Ford.  So images and memories of the past overlap the normal upbeat resolutions for a new beginning.  But then.. that really is the role that President Ford performed so well.  His inauguration was not filled with the usual celebration and promises of a brand new day.  Rather, we remember his acceptance speech when he told us that “our long national nightmare has ended.”

In an earlier post, I commented on a comment that President Ford made after he left office.  He said that if he could return to school, he would now pay more attention to improving his communications skills.  Specifically his presentation skills.  He would never have the powerful oratorical presence of a President Kennedy or a Winston Churchill.  Instead, many of us were left with a memory of a bumbling, stumbling and rather common man who always managed to hit a golf ball into the crowd – and injure a potential voter.  Impressions and perceptions count a lot – they shape opinions and either open or close the door to opportunity.  It is difficult to convey a sense of leadership while the mass media is constantly showing images of the president falling down the steps as he alights from Air Force One.  And Chevy Chase and Saturday Night Live are making their mark parodying these pratfalls!

And yet… now… as we remember President Ford, a new perception emerges.  We read (not listen to) the words that he spoke and the wisdom of those words is revealed.  We can now appreciate his “common man” style as just the perfect choice for a President to lead our nation forward – past the tumult of Vietnam and Watergate towards a new beginning. 

I have been struck by several impressions as the memorial services have evolved:

Vice President Cheney gave the best speech of his career as he eulogized his former boss on Saturday evening in the Capitol Rotunda.  Perhaps, this illustrates the point that when we speak from the heart our message is clarion-clear.

The four Ford Children standing for hours to greet the mourners (ordinary people) who came to pay tribute to their father!  Remarkable and unstaged.  What a tribute to the values that their mother and father imparted as they grew up as a family while the national spotlight was shining on them.

The importance of candor – Betty Ford set a new standard as the First Lady – she could never hide the truth.  She spoke to – and for – all of us as she dealt with Breast Cancer and addiction.  She survived and inspired so many to follow her lead.

In a few days, a new congress will convene and most likely we will return to the policy of political bickering and “single issue” politics.  The exact opposite of the collegial style of leadership that President Ford personified.  Maybe, these days of remembrance will serve as a national “speed bump” to remind us to slow down and consider another point of view before launching into a diatribe and personal attack on others.

So, for me, January 1, 2007 is not just another “out with the old and in with the new” year.  I have no idea how the year will turn out.  But I am starting this one with a greater appreciation of the lessons of the past and a recognition that actions truly speak louder than words.

  

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Greetings from Tokyo

Greetings from Tokyo!  My wife and I are fortunate in that we are able to continue a New Years' tradition.  We enjoy celebrating the New Year in a different world capital.  In prior years we have been in London and Paris.  It is fun.  And nice to get a different perspective on how people celebrate the ringing out of the old and ring in the new year.

For me, it is especially symbolic this year.  I closed one chapter in my career at the end of June and launched my consulting practice – The Company Rocks on July 1.  It has been a lot of work trying to get established – but so rewarding.  I thank all of my friends and family who have offered continuous support and encouragement.  It is hard to imagine how I could have done this alone!

Today, my wife and I are getting up early to go out to the Tokyo Fish Market – it opens at 4:40 A.M.  We want to see the auction and the action – and all of those great big Tunas!  And then we will look for a local Sushi House to get a bite of the freshest fish that we can find.  It should be a fun day!

We wish you a very peaceful and prosperous 2007! 

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Danny in Tokyo

I posted a new photo to Photos.

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Chicago – One Year Later

I am in Chicago this week for the 60th Annual Midwest Clinic – An International Band and Orchestra Conference.  The weather is great – bright and sunny.  Seeing so many of my old friends and colleagues – priceless!

Last year, at this conference, I was really starting to solidify my plan for a change in career.  I had been working for companies in the music products industry for 29 years, and now it was the time for me to work for myself.  There were so many things that I wanted to accomplish – and I realized that I would have to “go out on my own” in order to do so.  This was not an easy decision for me.  I needed to build up the courage to follow my convictions and launch my own consulting practice.

But I really wondered, “Will this be the last time I attend The Midwest Clinic?”  Will this be the last time I see so many of my good friends?  What about those traditions?  Gosh, I've attended this conference every December for the 22 years  – will this be my last one?

Well, I am happy to report that it is already “Old Home Week” here in Chicago!  As soon as I walked through the front door at the Chicago Hilton and Towers I ran into 3 long-time colleagues.  As usual, it took me 25 minutes to get to the elevators – just saying hello to all the people that I know, love and respect – just like the last 22 years!

Fortunately, I have a legitimate reason to be at the conference this year.  The American Music Conference (AMC) is holding our Executive Committee Meeting here during the conference.  And my schedule is quite full with appointments.  But, reflecting back to December 2005…

It is so much better to be moving towards a new goal than it is to be moving away from the past.  I was making that change- in my mind – at this time last year.  Here in Chicago.  It was painful.  Leaving my past behind… leaving all of that security behind… wondering, worrying… But then it started to change.  My vision for what I could accomplish started to become clearer.  I was walking towards a new goal.  I was ready to close one chapter in my career and turn the page to start the next one.

I am going to relish my time here this week.  I'm going to take extra time to “be present” when I chat with my colleagues.  I am going to take time to reflect on each of the traditions associated with The Midwest.  I'm going to making more plans for the future.  I'm going to be setting some new goals.  I'm going to savor each moment.  I know why I belong to this association.  I welcome the strength that I gain from my associates.  I am glad that I made my career change.  It has been a very good year!

 

 

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A Successful Life

“Success is not the key to happiness.  Happiness is the key to success.  If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.”

– Albert Schweitzer

Yes, you will! 

If you don't believe me just consider the life of Ahmet Ertegun, the founder of Atlantic Records (in 1947) who passed away this week.

As I read Ahmet's obituary in the New York Times, I was struck by this anecdote:

In 1944, the year his father (the dean of the diplomatic corps in Washington, D.C.) died, Ahmet was 21 years old and taking graduate courses in medieval philosophy.  As he told the graduates of Berklee College of Music in 1991:

“In between courses I spent hours in a rhythm & blues record shop in the black ghetto in Washington.  Almost every night, I went to the Howard Theater and to various jazz and blues clubs.  I had to decide whether I would go into a scholastic life or go back to Turkey in the diplomatic service, or do something else.  What I really loved was music, jazz, blues, and hanging out.”

And that's what he did.  He did what he loved to do.  And his 83-years on this earth are a testament to that.

If we love what we do, we will acquire whatever skills it takes for us to be successful.  I have seen so many people during my lifetime who were talented and skilled at what they did – but they weren't doing something that they really loved – the passion just wasn't there for them.  And… they never achieved success until that found their passion.

We can thank Ahmet Ertegun for following his love, engaging his passions and becoming extremely successful – by helping so many musicians to find success.  He resisted the desires of others to make him follow a different career path – theirs.  If he had not followed his love, it would have been much harder for Ray Charles, Aretha Franklin, Otis Redding and John Coltrane to find a broader audience.

Find what you absolutely love to do.  Then it will not matter how hard you have to work while doing it.  You will be happy.  You will be successful!

 

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The Stand-up Standard

I advise my clients to increase the actual number of meetings that they hold each month.  Yes more meetings!  But only if you implement a strategy for holding many different types of meetings.  One of my favorite types of meetings is a 10-minute “stand-up” reporting meeting.

Some people call this their daily “huddle.”  Regardless of what you call it, here's how to make it successful:

The purpose of this meeting is to keep all members of your team (executives or departmental) on the “same page” for that day or that week.

Each team member reports on what they are doing / have done towards reaching a common team goal.

Everyone stands up for the meeting.  There is a strict time limit enforced – no one is allowed to ramble-on or pontificate.

This meeting is held at the same time each day / week regardless of how many team members are physically present.  Some team members may submit their report ahead of time to be read; other team members may participate via teleconference.

No one is allowed to stay off topic!  If an urgent topic emerges from this “heads-up” meeting do not discuss it it this meeting.  Convene another meeting (starting in 5 minutes if necessary) to address this crisis.  And bring in the necessary people and materials you will need to deal with this crisis.

In order to have effective meetings at work you must take a strategic approach to scheduling and preparing for tour meetings.  If there is no purpose for the meeting… don't hold the meeting!  If there is a purpose, what type of meeting will best serve your purpose.  Should the meeting be strategic?  Or a brain-storming meeting?  Will you need to reach a decision at the meeting?  If so, what approach will you take?  Consensus, majority vote?

I think that you see the point.  I also think that you might start to agree that your company needs to hold more meetings (while decreasing overall employee hours spent in meetings) to become more productive and profitable.

As I have said in prior posts on this subject a good place to start to get reliable tips on improving your meetings is at the Effective Meetings website.  There are also several very good books on this subject.  I will write my reviews on several of them in the weeks and months to come.

Meanwhile, if you have a favorite tip or book to share with our readers please do so.  Add your comment to this post.  It's easy to do and our readers will benefit from your participation.

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Start Your Meetings On Time

As I prepared my materials to train some clients to run more effective meetings I came across some very interesting tips.  Here is one that I would like to share with you:

Schedule your meeting to start at an unusual time – e.g. 10:07 A.M.  How many 10:00AM meetings ever really start on time anyway?  Very few.  So, if the reality is that your meetings start 6 or 7 minutes after the scheduled time, there is usually a reason:

The previous meeting ended at 10:00AM and people have to stop for a break prior to the start of the scheduled 10:00AM meeting.

Every meeting is scheduled to start on the hour or the half-hour and no meeting ever starts on-time.  So, make YOUR meeting stand out… and start on-time!

If you want your meetings to start (and end) on-time you have to impose discipline – and show your colleagues that your meeting is real business!  Trust me on this – if you are firm in starting your meeting on-time, people will quickly get the message.

Instead of just closing the door and starting the meeting.  I suggest that you take it one step further:

Stand next to the door with your back to the door to prevent the stragglers from entering.  You might even place your hand on the door knob to prevent them from entering.  That sends a signal!

Or… you could take a cue from the “theater” or a “Concert Hall” and place a sign on the meeting door:  “Meeting in progress.  Latecomers will be seated at the first break in order to not disturb the meeting.”

Try one of these tips.  And let our readers know how they worked for you.  If you want to learn more about running an effective meeting check out the Effective Meetings website.  Great articles, and even a free newsletter!

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